THE BEAUTY OF WOMEN

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A letter from a Christian to Muslim women

By Joanna Francis
Writer, Journalist – USA

A letter from a Christian to Muslim women
March 7th, 2007
By Joanna Francis
Writer, Journalist – USA
Between the Israeli assault on Lebanon and the Zionist “war on terror,” the Muslim world is now center stage in every American home. I see the carnage, death and destruction that have befallen Lebanon, but I also see something else: I see you. I can’t help but notice that almost every woman I see is carrying a baby or has children around her. I see that though they are dressed modestly, their beauty still shines through. But it’s not just outer beauty that I notice. I also notice that I feel something
strange inside me: I feel envy. I feel terrible for the horrible experiences and war crimes that the Lebanese people have suffered, being targeted by our common enemy. But I can’t help but admire your strength, your beauty, your modesty, and most of all, your happiness. Yes, it’s strange, but it occurred to me that even under constant bombardment, you still seemed happier than we are, because you were still living the natural lives of women. The way women have always lived since the beginning of time. It used to be that way in the West until the 1960s, when we were bombarded by the same enemy. Only we were not bombarded with actual munitions, but with subtle trickery and moral corruption.


Through Temptation
They bombarded us Americans from Hollywood, instead of from fighter jets or with our own American-made tanks. They would like to bomb you in this way too, after they’ve finished bombing the infrastructure of your countries. I do not want this to happen to you. You will feel degraded, just like we do. You can avoid this kind of bombing if you will kindly listen to those of us who have already suffered serious casualties from their evil influence. Because everything you see coming out of
Hollywood is a pack of lies, a distortion of reality, smoke and mirrors. They present casual sex as harmless recreation because they aim to destroy the moral fabric of the societies into which they beam their poisonous programming. I beg you not to drink their poison. There is no antidote for it once you have consumed it. You may recover partially, but you will never be the same. Better to avoid the poison altogether than to try to heal from the damage it causes. They will try to tempt you with their titillating movies and music videos, falsely portraying us American women as happy and satisfied, proud of dressing like prostitutes, and content without families. Most of us are not happy, trust me. Millions of us are on anti-depressant medication, hate our jobs, and cry at night over the men who told us they loved us, then greedily used us and walked away. They would like to destroy your families and convince you to have fewer children. They do this by presenting marriage as a form of slavery, motherhood as a curse, and being modest and pure as old-fashioned. They want you to cheapen yourself and lose your faith. They are like the Serpent tempting Eve with the apple. Don’t bite.
Self-Value
I see you as precious gems, pure gold, or the “pearl of great value” spoken of in the Bible (Matthew 13: 45). All women are pearls of great value, but some of us have been deceived into doubting the value of our purity. Jesus said: “Give not that which is holy unto the dogs, neither cast your pearls before swine, lest they trample them under their feet, and turn again and rend you” (Matthew 7: 6). Our pearls are priceless, but they convince us that they’re cheap. But trust me; there is no substitute for being able to look in the mirror and seeing purity, innocence and self-respect staring back at you. The fashions coming out of the Western sewer are designed to make you believe that your most valuable asset is your sexuality. But your beautiful dresses and veils are
actually sexier than any Western fashion, because they cloak you in mystery and show self-respect and confidence. A woman’s sexuality should be guarded from unworthy eyes, since it should be your gift to the man who loves and respects you enough to marry you. And since your men are still manly warriors, they deserve no less than your best. Our men don’t even want purity anymore. They don’t recognize the pearl of great value, opting for the flashy rhinestone instead. Only to leave her too! Your most valuable assets are your inner beauty, your innocence, and everything that makes you who you are. But I notice that some Muslim women push the limit and try to be as Western as possible, even while wearing a veil (with some of their hair showing). Why imitate women who already regret, or will soon regret, their lost
virtue? There is no compensation for that loss. You are flawless diamonds. Don’t let them trick you into becoming rhinestones. Because everything you see in the fashion magazines and on Western television is a lie. It is Satan’s trap. It is fool’s gold.

A Woman’s Heart
I’ll let you in on a little secret, just in case you’re curious: pre-marital sex is not even that great. We gave our bodies to the men we were in love with, believing that that was the way to make them love us and want to marry us, just as we had seen on television growing up. But without the security of marriage and the sure knowledge that he will always stay with us, it’s not even enjoyable! That’s the irony. It was just a waste. It leaves you in tears. Speaking as one woman to another, I believe that you understand that already. Because only a woman can truly understand what’s in another woman’s heart. We really are all alike. Our race, religion or nationalities do not matter. A woman’s heart is the same everywhere. We love. That’s what we do best. We nurture our families and give comfort and strength to the men we love. But we American women have been fooled into believing that we are happiest having careers, our own homes in which to live alone, and freedom to give our love away to whomever we choose. That is not freedom. And that is not love. Only in the safe haven of marriage can a woman’s body and heart be safe to love. Don’t settle for anything less. It’s not worth it. You won’t even like it and you’ll like yourself even less afterwards. Then he’ll leave you.

Self-Denial
Sin never pays. It always cheats you. Even though I have reclaimed my honor, there’s still no substitute for having never been dishonored in the first place. We Western women have been brainwashed into thinking that you Muslim women are oppressed. But truly, we are the ones who are oppressed; slaves to fashions that degrade us, obsessed with our weight, begging for love from men who do not want to grow up. Deep down inside, we know that we have been cheated. We secretly admire and envy you, although some of us will not admit it. Please do not
look down on us or think that we like things the way they are. It’s not our fault. Most of us did not have fathers to protect us when we were young because our families have been destroyed. You know who is behind this plot. Don’t be fooled, my sisters. Don’t let them get you too. Stay innocent and pure. We Christian women need to see what life is really supposed to be like for women. We need you to set the example for us, because we are lost. Hold onto your purity. Remember: you can’t put the toothpaste back in the tube. So guard your “toothpaste”
carefully!


I hope you receive this advice in the spirit in which it is intended: the spirit of friendship, respect, and admiration. From your Christian sister — with love…

  • This article is republished with the kind permission of the author. The original can

be found on Crescent and the Cross. Joanna Francis is a writer and journalist. She
manages her own blog.

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kls hadis maudhuie'

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assalamualaikum sume..

arini nk cter psl kls hadis maudhuie' lak.
hds maudhuie' ni bkn hadis maudhu' y hadis palsu di reka2 2,
mcm hadis tahlili m'bncangkan isi2nye dgn lbih t'perinci ngan i'rab2nye.
tp y ni m'bncangkn ttg topik hadis.

hadis arini :

'Alqama reported: While I was walking with 'Abdullah at Mina, 'Uthman happened to meet him. He stopped there and began to talk with him. Uthman said to him: Abu 'Abd al-Rahman, should we not marry you to a young girl who may recall to you some of the past of your bygone days; thereupon he said: If you say so, Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) said: 0 young men, those among you who can support a wife should marry, for it restrains eyes from casting (evil glances). and preserves one from immorality; but those who cannot should devote themselves to fasting for it is a means of controlling sexual desire.

dlm kitab blaja bhs arab,lg best.tp n t'jmahkn xpndai sgt.
cari2 lam i'net,ad bhs iggris je.xpela korg sume celik english an.
kina nk share ap y kina blaja sbb kbnyakan kwn2 kina bkn bdk usuluddin an.
lam geng2 kina pn kina sorg je usul.n klu korg2 ni dak syariah da tau pn xpela an.
nk share sbb kina blaja lu dri korg.
sbb fiqh munakahat korg hye akn blaja sem2 ats nnt.hua2..

dalam hadis maudhuie' ni ktorg sume blaja bab nikah je.
ptutla akhi shahril kte ari2 klu blaja ngan ust rais,best gle.hahaha..
tau la ust rais 2 cmne..
xpela pn,ktorg dpt ngan ustzah sakinah.best je

ok2,hadis ni cter,bg pemuda2 y b'keinginan nk b'nikah,
b'kemampuan,nk memelihara kehormatan
& mgelakkan dari melakukan maksiat,
sgt2 digalakkan b'kahwin.(wajib)
tp klu korg2 nk sgt kwen tp xde duet,
(tau,korg sume xde duet lg an)kne la puase.
sbb puase 2 sbg bnteng.
org puase x b'nafsu.sbb puase 2 mematahkn nafsu.
ustzh kate,klu korg puase tp stil cam xde pape,
haa msti ad y xkne kt pose korg 2.check2 la blk.
lg ustzah pesan,kte ni msih blaja,b'cmpur,
pndang pmpn pndg sbelah,tgk laki,laki pndang sblah tgk pmpn,
so kne la rjen2 b'puase.pham2 s'dri la.
act awl2 ustzah da tye,nk kwen x?tye kt sume plajar ni la.
pas2 ustzh s'dri jwp,ad ke y xnk?msti sume nk kn?
sbb mmg ftrah kte mcm 2,nk b'psang psangan.
nabi Adam pn sunyi xde tman..
kina diam je la an..(spe y fhm 2,fhm la)

pas2,klu nk kwen,btter y muda2,gadis.sbb?
y muda2 ni lbh sng nk didik,n lbh puas b'istmta'
ni kbiasaannyelah.

pas2 lg,dlm hadis ni Rasulullah tuju kt 'shabab'.
knp gne syabab??
sbb dlm wktu mude ni,nafsu syahwat 2 lbih b'bnding org dwasa @ org tua..
tp klu nfsu org dwsa ngan org tua pn sme cam org mude,kne kwen jgk la.

klu tye kina,nk kwen ke x?,kina rse xlg kot.
mcm2 y b'laku kdg2 wat kina rse xnk kwen.(xb'keinginan)
tp bl tgk gmb baby2 y comel2 kt mjlah,
jnior kina lak tgh prgnant,alahai..

then tbe2 lak mse last2 kls ustzah kte,
klu bg spe2 y nk kn zuriat,
sme ad b'keinginan @ x,wajib bgnye b'khwen.
kina :t'cengang & ???????
dlm ati,xde kaitan kot.
pape pn,blm msenye lg.
hua4..
(sume da pk mcm2)hahahaha
ok2,slmt b'puase sume.^_^

al tayyarat al fikriyyah al muasirah

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salam sume..

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da lme gak kot x update blog ni.bzy n tataw nk tulis ap.
smlm da stat kls utk short sem.
sub al tayyarat al fikriyyah al muasirah y b'maksud aliran
pemikiran moden y diajar ust zul fahmi.
act sub ni ust rais y aja,tp tuka ngan ust zul fahmi.
mle2 xknl ust zul fahmi ni spe,n ad mmbe kte die aja x best.
so cam xbest sgt la nk msuk kls an.
tp mse msuk kls,msuk lmbt,rspon die baek je.
time 2 da rse die cam ok je.
then die stat ngaja,wallaweh.. best gle.hyut kina dlm cter2 die.
die ske b'crite.so byk sgt ilmu y dpt.
n srius nk ckp cre die ngaja lbh baek dri ust rais.
n english die sgt baek.
sbb ust rais ilmunye tggi sgt.hahaha..
ok ckup psl ust.

act nk cter ttg sub ni.sblm ni tataw pn tayyarat 2 ap.
dak2 kls kina pggl tyroid je.
sbbkn kes ad sorg dak kls ktorg y m'hidap tyroid.hahaha
then bl msuk kls bru tau.n sub ni sbnrnye kne ikut p'kmbgan smsa n lbh pd sejarah.
sronoknye nk blaja sbb mmg mnt sjrah.tringat mse blaja fm4 dlu..

smlm bru blaja mukadimah.tp byk sgt critenye.
ttg dri zmn nabi isa,mcm mne mnculnye kristian
& muslihat2 paul of tarsus,bible y sbnr n bible y palsu,
pemikiran b'mula d greek

n ap y mnyebabkan berlakunya zmn kgelapan.
munculnye pemikiran sekularisme,freemason & agenda2 yahudi,
perang dunia p'tma & kedua,bls dndam hitler & hollocast(btul ke eja?)
smpai la komunis n tulisan jawi..
kne byk m'kaji nih.huhu
trase cam msuk dlm zman2 2.mmg m'hanyutkn bl blja sjrh.hahaha..
plg best cter psl krstian,freemason ngan hitler.
pape pn,usuluddin terbaik.hahaha

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act tringin nk cter sume y kina blaja smlm.
sbb menarik sgt.
tp pnjg sgt.kang korg xlrat lak nk bce.
n skill mnulis pn da tmpul.hehehe..
xpe2,t kina kaji2 lg dpt byk2 info,
kina cter k.
daa sume..

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Petikan Al-Qur'an Dalam Menyifatkan Wanita Yang Solehah

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Kedudukan wanita yang Solehah tidaklah dapat dicapai dengan hanya menonton drama filem cinta Korea atau membaca novel-novel cinta atau menyertai mana-mana jemaah atau kumpulan lalu memakai pakaian jubah dan bertudung labuh sahaja.

Kita tahu betapa ramai wanita bertudung labuh dan berjubah sering menghancurkan hati lelaki-lelaki yang beriman dan mengecewakan para pejuang Islam dan kita juga tahu wanita yang mengambil jurusan agama pun seringkali mungkir janji dan berlaku khianat.

Seperti lelaki, kita juga mengetahui lebai dan kopiah boleh dipakai dan ditanggal sekaligus juga janggut boleh tumbuh dan dicukur lalu menjelaskan bahawa penampilan luaran selalu tidak dapat dijadikan sebagai kayu ukuran kesolahan dan kebaikan..

Rasulullah Shallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam bersabda : “Ketahuilah bahawa dalam tubuh ini terdapat segumpal daging Jika ianya baik maka baiklah seluruh tubuh ini dan sebaliknya apabila ianya rosak maka rosaklah pula seluruh tubuh ini.” (Hadith sahih riwayat Bukhari 1/126 dan 4/290-Al Fath, Muslim 1599 dari Nu’man bin Basyir radliyallahu 'anhuma).

Islam Memberi Jalan Penyelesaian

" Mudah-mudahan tuhan-Nya, jika nabi menceraikan kamu bahawa tuhan pasti akan mengantikan kamu dengan isteri-isteri yang lain yang lebih baik dari diri kamu iaitu perempuan-perempuan muslimat, mukminat yang taat dan bertaubat serta beribadah yang berpuasa baik janda atau perawan" (At-Tahrim : 5).

Allah menyebut beberapa ciri perempuan yang solehah iaitu :

1) Perempuan muslimat yang beragama Islam dan menyerah diri kepada Allah dan rasul
2) Perempuan mukminah yang beriman dan yakin kepada Allah dan janji-janji- Nya
3) Muslimah yang taat kepada Allah dan rasul serta kepada suami
4) Muslimah yang seringkali bertaubat di atas dosa-dosa dan kesalahan dan kejahilannya
5) Muslimah yang rajin menunaikan ibadah dan berpuasa kerana dengan puasa itu dapat mengawal hawa nafsu dan kelakuan.

“ Sesungguhnya Allah memberi hikmah kepada sesiapa yang dikehendaki- Nya dan barangsiapa yang diberikan hikmah maka sesungguhnya dia telah mendapat kebaikan yang banyak.” (Surah Al-Baqarah : 269).

Islam mengajar untuk mengetahui kebaikan agama seseorang ialah melalui amalan kebaikan yang dilakukan dan kesungguhan seseorang pada agama dan hal ini dapat dilihat dengan jelas melalui kehidupan yang dilaluinya.

Seorang Saleswomen (penjual perempuan) yang bekerja di supermarket sekalipun kerjanya tidak bagus apabila terpaksa bercampur dengan lelaki dan menjebakkan dirinya kepada sosial dan mempromosikan barangan sehingga mendedahkan dirinya kepada pandangan buruk dan fitnah tetapi adakalanya mereka ini memiliki hati yang mulia dan suci.

“Dan hamba perempuan yang mukminah itu lebih utama dan baik bagi kamu dari perempuan musyrik yang kafir walau dianya menarik perhatian kamu” ( Al-baqarah : 221).

Mengasihi orang tua, orang susah, tidak suka bahkan benci menyakiti hati manusia lainnya apatah lagi menghancurkan hati seorang lelaki yang beriman dan sanggup bekorban menghancurkan dirinya sendiri (memiliki sifat ihsan) demi kebaikan orang lain menyebabkan tanpa tangguh golongan sepeprti ini mendapat rahmat Allah dan akhirnya dibimbing kepada hidayah dan pertunjuk dan hidupnya diberkati di langit sekalipun di bumi dia berasa hina dan tiada maruah.

Malaysia, dipenuhi wanita-wanita yang tidak bertudung , tidak menutup aurat , jahil agama dan tiada kesedaran untuk melaksanakan Islam tetapi dalam kerosakan itu ada di celah-celah kaca yang melukakan anak adam akan sejumlah wanita suci yang bersih hatinya tetapi diuji oleh Allah dengan berada di lingkungan kekotoran.

Mereka membesar tanpa ilmu agama, tanpa hidayah pertunjuk lalu hidup sosial dan bebas sehingga merosakan diri mereka tetapi punyai hati yang bersih dan suci. Alangkah bagusnya jika lelaki-lelaki muslim mendapatkan wanita-wanita ini dan diberi bimbing serta dipandu mereka sehingga mendapat hidayah dari Allah swt.

Kepentingan Hati dan Akhlak yang Baik

Sebaliknya kita mengetahui pula, wanita yang berpakaian jubah dan tudung labuh dan mendalami pengajian agama kerap kali melanggar batas dan merasa mereka mulia dan beragama sehingga menyebabkan mereka merasa bongkak dan sombong serta ego dan berlagak lalu dengan itu selalu menghancurkan diri mereka.

Rasulullah Shallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam bersabda : “Ketahuilah bahawa dalam tubuh ini terdapat segumpal daging Jika ianya baik maka baiklah seluruh tubuh ini dan sebaliknya apabila ianya rosak maka rosaklah pula seluruh tubuh ini.” (Hadith sahih riwayat Bukhari 1/126 dan 4/290-Al Fath, Muslim 1599 dari Nu’man bin Basyir radliyallahu 'anhuma).

Bukankah wanita-wanita bertudung labuh dan berjubah ini ialah golongan yang kerap mengatakan kami ingin suami yang berfikrah dan menolak lelaki beriman yang berakhlak mulia hanya kerana fikrah ? Juga wanita bertudung labuh ini ialah mereka yang manis bicara pada lisan tapi kelat dan kotor pada hati dan perbuatan.

“ Katakanlah : Mahukah kami khabarkan kepada kamu akan keadaan golongan yang hanya merugi amalan mereka ? Iaitu mereka yang sesat perbuatan mereka (jalan mereka) di dunia sedangkan dalam kesesatan itu mereka menyangka mereka sedang berbuat baik”. (Al-kahfi : 103-104).

Menjadi perkara biasa mereka tidak mengenang budi pada lelaki yang bekorban masa depan dan hidupnya kepada mereka dan dengan mudah beralasan konon mahu menjaga hati dan maruah konon tidak mahu bercinta-cinta dan menerima cinta lelaki.

Mereka kemudian tergedik-gedik mahu berkahwin dan sedia menerima cinta apabila lelaki sefikrah dan sefahaman dengan mereka atau lelaki pilihan mereka datang menghulur bunga “ukhuwah” persahabatan dan kemudian berkasih-kasihan dengan mereka di bawah “Cinta Islamik”.

“Dan Dia menghalalkan bagi mereka segala benda yang baik, dan mengharamkan kepada mereka segala benda yang jijik (keji, buruk)" (Surah Al-A‘raf, ayat 157).

Alangkah sekiranya lelaki muslim yang beriman mengalih mata mereka kepada hati dan melihat kepada peribudi akhlak dan kesungguhan hati yang ingin kebaikan dari seorang wanita lemah di jalanan, di pasaraya, di kota-kota dan bandaraya mungkin mereka akan menjumpai wanita yang dengan mudah dapat menanggalkan pakaiannya untuk diberi kepada lelaki yang dicintainya.

Lalu ketika itu alangkah bagus jika lelaki yang beriman menahan perbuatannya dan mengajar wanita yang suci hatinya akan erti agama, taqwa, malu dan maruah serta menunjuk ajar kepadanya jalan sunnah rasulullah sehingga akhirnya wanita itu benar menanggalkan pakaiannya kepada lelaki itu tetapi dalam hak dan benar menurut syariat Allah swt.

“Adapun golongan yang takut kepada kebesaran tuhan mereka maka mereka menahan hawa nafsunya (tidak menurut hawa nafsu) maka sesungguhnya syurgalah tempat tinggal mereka” (An-Na’ziaat: 40).

Oleh : Ustaz Emran

pemergian opah t'sayang

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da 5 ari opah pegi,trase rndu sgt..ap lg bl dgr ibu abh cter saat2 akhir opah td..byk sgt bnd y kina xtau rpenye..xpela sume da lps an..byk y ibu abh cter td,sume nye baik2 n byk bnd y bukak mte kina.btul la saat kmatian 2 akn b'laku mcm2 bnd.tringat ustazah sakinah aja tafsir surah al Baqarah sem bru2 ni.

'kitab (al-quran)ini tidak ada keraguan padanya,petunjuk bagi org2 y b'taqwa.'
'iaitu mereka yang beriman kepada y GHAIB'
ayat 2-3.

sungguh kalam Allah itu benar..
opah pergi b'sme senyuman..(^_^)

wat blog baru

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http://www.emocutez.com

alhamdulillah..
akhirnye siap gak blog ni.

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susahnye la nk wat.lg susah dri wat y 1st ari2.
nape wat blog baru?
sbb nk lari dri s'seorg y sgt ske mnyebok.
plus,blog lme 2 cam msalah ckit.
k 2 je wat mse skrg.
daa..

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